Ok ladies, this post is for all of you who have ever been frustrated after sex. Ever wonder why that after sex, men don't feel the need to be as emotionally close to you as you do to them? AND why all they seem to want to do is sleep? Well, I did some research and found out. Aside from the fact that sex completely drains a man's battery, there is a fundamental reason why men want their space after sex, at least more so than women do. The reason women want to talk to their men and connect with them afterwards is because that's when we feel closer to them--AFTER sex. Not so for men. From what I found out, men feel closer to women BEFORE sex, which is essentially the chase leading up to it. The meeting point where both men and women connect on the same level is during sex. It's like a plateau--men feel closer to women leading up to sex, then it levels off during it, and then women feel closer to men after winding down from the act. It seems to me that this is a no-win situation for women, because if men feel the closest to women before they sleep with them, they eventually get what they want (unless they've *really* screwed up), but women will always be frustrated because men will never have the energy or willpower to connect with them afterwards. Sucks for us, but at least now we know why it is that way. Better than nothing right?
---CHANDANI
1 comment:
that explains a lot...gonna show my bf
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